this means a lot, my boyfriend considers him self fat no matter what I tell him. One of my best guy friends thinks no one will date him because he is over weight which is the most un true thing every. All guys bodies are attractive.
This means a lot to me too because my boyfriend also thinks he’s fat regardless of what I say. The saddest day was when I watched him step on a scale and get sad at a number he saw. Spread the love.
My boyfriend always puts himself down because he thinks he’s too skinny, :(
shout out to all my male followers (;
how is it only now that more people seem to be realising that guys suffer too? this isn’t aimed at anyone i’m just saying… i’m a guy and i hate my body, people have laughed in my face before when they found out that i hate myself because they think that only girls suffer… so yeah, boys suffer too.
people don’t seem to realize that men get objectified in ads just as much as women do, they get advertised to about being worthless if they aren’t fit/muscular/handsome/don’t have a girlfriend/don’t have a big dick.
and people say that this is a “mans world,” and they get a lot of flack for not being, acting, looking, or even sounding manly enough.
my boyfriend gets low about his looks compared to others, and no matter how much i tell him otherwise i can tell it still eats away at him.
just like when i get low about my looks.
just remember that guys get degraded by the standards of the media just as much as women do.
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Holy shit thank youuuuu
I was at a concert on Friday and one girl at the merch table asked for a small sized t shirt and the guy asked if she preferred men’s or women’s small and the guy behind her said “there’s a men’s small? that’s embarrassing” and it actually was embarrassing knowing that I was about to go up there and get one for myself and this is actually a big issue okay
I have a lot of fans who tell me I’m not overweight and that I shouldn’t be hard on myself. These people are lovely. But honestly I imagine it’s what a girl feels like when she’s rocking a “no makeup” look and people say “see, look how pretty you are without makeup!”
I put a lot of time and effort into dressing, posing and framing myself in a way that I can hide my weight because the millisecond I drop my guard I get a thousand comments from my audience telling me I’m looking fat.
I’m pretty damn certain the pressure on women to look good is far worse than it is for men but as someone in the public eye I can safely say that yes, it sucks a whole bag of fucks.
you’re killing me bro
I’m a social retard, explain to me why this is a bad thing. If all I have to say is “nice” then all I say is “nice.” Nice is good isn’t it?
That’s fine. Nice is good.
It’s just frustrating when someone prompts a conversation and doesn’t put any effort in continuing it lol. When the other person KEEPS GIVING really lackluster, terse answers that shows, to me, that they have little to no interest in me, what we’re talking about, or this friendship/relationship.
Not much to talk about when “nice” is the most they can say.
yeahhhhhhhhhh i used to have a friend like this and bOY OH BOY AM I HAPPY I’M NOT FRIENDS WITH THEM ANYMORE
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Im that friend
I hate it but even if i initiate a conversation i dont know what to do after that and i always feel terrible because im lonely and want to talk but
I am that person, thanks for making me feel like shit for being introverted and for not throwing as many words into a chat box as you did.
THOSE TWO/THREE YEARS ARE AWFUL!
EVERYGUY I TRIED TO DATE SUCKS!
HE IS OR A
JERK,OR AN ASSHOLE,OR JUST A CRY BABY!!!!!
OK SO WE LIVE FAR,WE CAN STILL TRY THIS
SHITIF YOU REALLY LIKE ME!
OK SO YOU DON’T LIKE PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT US,YOU CAN STILL LET ME FEEL THAT YOU LIKE/LOVE ME…
Oh damn, I’m so sorry Ralulu :( I’m going to sleep now but if you need to put anything off your chest I’m here.
There once was a young boy with a very bad temper. The boy’s father wanted to teach him a lesson, so he gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.
On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. He was really mad!
Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his temper, so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased.
It wasn’t long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Then, the day finally came when the little boy didn’t lose his temper even once, and he became so proud of himself, he couldn’t wait to tell his father.
Pleased, his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper.
Several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
Very gently, the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
“You have done very well, my son,” he smiled, “but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.”
The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak.
“When you say things in anger, they leave permanent scars just like these. And no matter how many times you say you’re sorry, the wounds will still be there.”
This was really an amazing and necessary thing to read right now.
Wow, I’ve heard about celebrities with quite a sense of entitlement (like when Miley Cyrus was pissed at Radiohead for being refused meeting them), but THIS taking it way too far.
Dirty self portrait.